Turn Away
Today, we are greeted by the Mermaids. Mermaids have a unique connection with the truth of the heart and being in flow. Their message today is:
“Turn away from or turn your back on a situation that isn’t serving your highest good. Turning away can be an empowering thing to do.”
This is a principle that many struggle to implement in their lives. We have been conditioned to feel responsible for others, to fix things for others, to suppress our own needs and desires so that someone else may have theirs instead. This conditioning leaves us open to manipulation, being controlled, and resentment. It leaves us open to doing things that we do not want to do, but feel we must out of obligation and duty. Doing so, not only dishonors our own innate value, it creates further disconnection with self and Source.
It also defies a main law of the Universe.
We are each a creator being. As such, we are responsible for the creation of OUR individual, unique reality. Our reality co-exists with each individual person’s reality. They also overlap each other. However, this does not mean that we are responsible for another or what they create in their lives. In fact, when we assume responsibility for another, even if it is well-intended, we disempower them from being the creator of their life and learning what their soul intended for them to learn.
Additionally, the main energies we are being offered the opportunity to release in the wormhole created from the March eclipses and equinox are victimhood and martyrdom. In their place, we are being offered the opportunity to step into a new relationship with everything and everyone in our lives that allows us to be more of our authentic selves and to honor another’s choices as well. We are choosing who we are and what we wish to create for ourselves going forward.
Allowing it all to exist simultaneously is also part of the invitation of increased alignment and multidimensionality.
When we separate or turn away with someone (even if it is for a short period of time), it may feel deeply uncomfortable and cause us to have doubts and/or result in us feeling guilty. Depending upon our level of fear, we may feel anxious and deeply stressed about doing so. Yet, we are being asked to know and trust the deep knowingness of our hearts and act accordingly.
Sometimes our choice to separate or walk away is complicated by the person or thing we are walking away from being in resistance to the change and blaming us for it. This can be mild or can go so far as being told that your choice is “ruining my life.” While we are conditioned to react to this and for many it is deeply traumatic, the truth is that no one is that powerful. Said differently, no one has the power to ruin another’s life - even when terrible things happen - for, again, we are each the creator of our reality and our soul has a plan for each of our journeys.
We are thus asked to turn away or separate with our self-value and esteem intact. And, this is often borne out in time as those who seemed unable to survive without assistance somehow find a way to not only survive, but to flourish and excel when we are no longer present. But, no matter the result, we are asked to recognize that we are each at choice and that everything happens for a reason. You have a role to play in another’s lives that your soul contracted for before you incarnated and each is empowered with free will in how that plays out during an incarnation.
Further, it is important to remember that we are never truly separate as we are all inter-connected. Therefore, you are able to send postive energy, blessings, and the energy of solution from a distance to the person’s oversoul.
When we honor ourselves, we are better able to show up for ourselves and others in a positive way. Thus, your responsibility is to honor yourself and the truth of your heart and act accordingly with truth, authenticity, accountability, kindness, compassion, detachment, and love.
Today’s invitation is to connect with your heart space. Call forth the presence of your guides, angels, and the mermaids. As you surrender into the loving embrace of your their energies, take a deep breath and begin to reflect upon all of the relationships in your life.
Are these relationships serving you in a positive way? Are there any that are not?
Are you doing things out of duty, obligation, guilt, or shame? Are you feeling resentful as a result? Do you have a family history of conditioning around these behavior patterns?
Are there relationships (business, family, or personal) that you are “done” with and, yet, will not disconnect from? Why not?
Do you recognize that being in relationship that does not honor your highest good disempowers you? Do you recognize that it also disempowers others?
If you have taken a step back or ended a relationship of any sort, are you feeling doubts or that you “should” reconnect? If so, ask your guides and angels to reveal to you what serves your highest good? What serves the other person’s highest good?
Will you accept and allow that we are each powerful creator beings? Will you accept and allow that others are responsible for their lives just as you are responsible for yours?
Are you willing to realize that you are not powerful enough to save another person? Are you willing realize that it is not your job?
Do you feel relief when you leave or turn away from a situation or person? Do you recognize that relief is a sign from your heart that you made the “right” choice - the choice aligned with your heart?
Are you willing to realize that your power is in your alignment with self and Source? Are you willing to listen and trust the knowingness of your heart?
This is a multi-leveled exercise that you may wish to return to over and over for it is one of the most important things that we must learn and embody as a multidimensional divine creator.
